Self Denial or Make Believe?

Read a certain entry a few times and wondered if the phrase 'deceives oneself and others' (in hanyu pinyin: Zi Qi Qi Ren) applies to the writer. To someone who used to see only one side of the story because the only one who can verify the story has made a promise not to tell, it seems kind of hilarious.

Ok. Let's give the writer the benefit of the doubt that she is trying to be truthful this time round rather than to hush it like before. But if between all these truth, she actually likes the essential person in this 'story', then i guess explaining or telling the truth might just seem futile and even 'back fire'. *laughs* One with a guilty conscience can never tell the truth or the whole truth.

Hmm..my colleague just asked me a question on 'What are my goals in life' and said my answers are expected due to the standard of living in Singapore and is also similar to what his brother has said. Hmm..maybe everyone can tell me what their goals in life are and see if Singaporeans really think the same. (Mind you, my colleague is local.)